As quoted earlier, “the higher the skill, the higher you get paid.” You can even offer lap dancing for free and increase the intimacy level. You can either offer free or paid services, according to you. Also, giving it would add up to a new skill called lap dancing. You can also give a pole dance to anyone on a love seat or a sofa in this sims 4 lap dance mod. Those who avail of this have to pay and get laid.
Lap dance is a feature of this cc that you provide.